Watson 7 Rings

A Journey to a Balanced Life of Peace, Passion, And Purpose
1. Auflage 2017
ISBN: 978-1-942306-91-7
Verlag: NEWTYPE Publishing
Format: EPUB
Kopierschutz: Adobe DRM (»Systemvoraussetzungen)

E-Book, Englisch, 200 Seiten

The 7 RINGS: A Journey to a Balanced Life of Peace, Passion, and Purpose combines the business and leadership acumen of a successful, global CEO with the inspiration and passionate motivation of a friend. Simply put, it's an inspiring field guide for making life balance a reality, from someone who has had their share of struggles and disappointments. Bridging both the corporate and non-profit worlds, this book challenges readers to discover their life's purpose and encourages them to live wholeheartedly in all that they do.

Autoren/Hrsg.

Watson, Brian

Leseproben

INTRODUCTION WHAT WILL YOU DO WITH YOUR LIFE TODAY? “Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it.” | Maya Angelou I’ve noticed an interesting paradox in the past few years. On one hand, media commentators, researchers, and historians tell us the American Dream is dead. Some even go so far as to say it has become a nightmare, a mirage of materialism promising the false hope of personal fulfillment to everyone when in reality it only delivers to a few privileged powerbrokers. Most of these naysayers claim our country has already peaked as a world leader and is now in decline. When our country was founded, however, the United States served as a land of opportunity, an untamed wilderness offering a better life than the lingering social caste system of feudal European countries, such as England and France, could provide. If people were willing to brave the voyage to America, risk facing its dangers and uncertainties, and work hard, then a better life potentially awaited them. The Declaration of Independence promised that “all men are created equal” with the right to “Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.” Consequently, our great nation became the proverbial melting pot of various ethnicities and cultures, races and tribes. Even today in the 21st century, thousands of people enter the U.S. each year, and immigration—who and how many to allow into our country—remains a controversial issue. Yet many people insist the American Dream has died somewhere over the course of the past two-hundred-plus years, that cultural cynicism has replaced the optimism upon which our country was built. But here’s the paradox: if the American Dream is dead, then why do so many people still yearn to enter our borders any way possible as they seek a better, fuller, more exciting, and satisfying life? Why do so many people seem determined to chase success and keep their dreams alive? WINNING IS EVERYTHING—OR IS IT? Everyone wants to be a winner, a success, a person who makes the most of their God-given talents, abilities, and opportunities to improve their own life and the lives of others. Maybe this is human nature and not something unique to our country. But I believe growing up in a land where someone without a college education can become a self-made billionaire through their talent and hard work creates a special atmosphere, a sense of possibility that underdogs can slay the giant odds against them by sheer will and tenacity. Simply put, people love winning. From the ball field to the battlefield, from a board game to the boardroom, winning seems to be an integral part of being human. In fact, our brains are genetically hardwired to pursue winning. Whether we’re hunting wild animals to survive like our ancestors or chasing our next promotion on the corporate ladder or purchasing a raffle ticket, scientists tell us winning unlocks a flood of feel-good neurochemicals including dopamine, serotonin, and oxytocin. Winning clearly has the power to make us feel good. In the United States, along with many other countries, we are conditioned to compete from birth, in everything from academics to athletics and every extracurricular activity imaginable. In fact, researchers tell us children today feel more pressure to win at an earlier age (www.nytimes.com/2013/02/10/magazine/why-can-some-kids-handle-pressure-while-others-fall-apart.html). This pressure to win continues as young adults jockey for awards, scholarships, and admission to the best universities. After earning degrees, they then begin the lifelong process of competing for jobs. In the tumultuous economy of the past few years, such competition has often determined the difference between financial success or bankruptcy. Even our primary leisure activities focus on winning. Spectator sports such as football, baseball, basketball, soccer, and auto racing have become billion dollar industries, each with its own particular championship title of “world’s best.” With video games, players can challenge other players as well as imaginary adversaries in their quest to advance to the next level where the pursuit of the winning cycle begins again. On TV there is a flood of reality shows focused on competition in every category: singing, cooking, decorating, modeling, and even dating. Whether by achievement or popular vote, or a combination of both, participants strive to win at any cost. RINGS AROUND YOUR CORE Yes, everyone wants to win, to succeed—but what does that mean in each of our lives? And just as important as succeeding, doesn’t it matter how you win? I’m convinced these two big questions are at the heart of what it means to be truly successful. Because chasing your American Dream is about more than having a better job, making more money, and buying more stuff. It’s about creating a balanced life of fulfillment, getting up each morning with a passion to face your day and live out your divine purpose. It’s about enjoying your family and the relationships around you, actively engaging in each other’s lives, taking time to talk with people and better yet, to truly listen to them. It’s about loving what you do and contributing to make the world a better place. I’ve definitely not reached a level that’s anywhere close to perfect, but I have learned how to live in synchronicity with the way I’m made and the life I’ve been given. While there’s no magic formula or three easy steps, I believe seven areas of life require your attention, cultivation, and investment. I think of them as seven rings, sometimes overlapping and intersecting one another. More three-dimensional and dynamic than flat and static, these seven rings are not concentric like a bullseye or free-floating like bubbles. They are more like parts of an atom swirling around its nucleus or satellites orbiting a planet. I’ve come to call them the “7 Rings of Life” and they’re mostly based on various experiences and events in my own life, which have often been painful and challenging. The older and wiser I’ve become (at least, I hope I’ve become), the more clarity I have received regarding the positioning of these rings. My roles as a son, a student, an employee, an employer, a husband, a father, and a follower of Jesus have all shaped my understanding of the 7 Rings. And the role that encompasses them best is probably that of entrepreneur, a word derived from the Old French word entreprendre, which means simply to undertake, typically something new and unknown, such as an ocean voyage or wilderness expedition. So I would like to invite you to journey with me as I share the 7 Rings of Life and how they help me make the most of my life. Believe me, the last thing I want to do is offer another self-help, motivational book. We have plenty of those already, from the business-oriented get-rich-quick types by CEOs and celebrities to the more faith-based ones by pastors, counselors, and theologians. In my humble opinion, most of these books are too long, too wordy, and don’t often connect faith with business, politics with community, or financial success with humble service. And rarely are they authored by someone who has worked in all these areas. Many of us could benefit from a field guide, an overview of life’s terrain and how to navigate it smoothly. I wish I could have had such a guide when I was younger so now I’m simply sharing some of the ideas and lessons I have learned through the years. That’s the purpose of this book. I’m not writing it to be famous or make money or attract the attention of the media. I’m writing it to help people in ways that others helped me. And all the net sales proceeds from this book will be donated to a variety of worthy causes through the Brian Watson Foundation. As you’ll see, and as I hope I demonstrate in the pages to come, this book is about giving—to yourself, to your Creator, to your spouse, to your children, to your community, to our nation, and to our planet. MAKING THE 7 RINGS WORK FOR YOU My goal is to simply share the real and sometimes painful experiences of someone who was raised in humble means, experienced the pain of two parents getting divorced, witnessed the unexpected death of his stepfather in front of him, built a successful commercial real estate investment company, and is a father of three and husband of almost two decades. I hope to convey the experience of a common man who has worked hard to pursue and reap the benefits of the real American Dream, and who works every day to help improve others’ lives and to create opportunities for everyone around me. I sincerely hope you can be encouraged by my experiences, and that you may be able to create a model for your own life through some of the ideas I will share. Though your structure and prioritization, or even the rings themselves, may be different than mine, I challenge you to consider what they should be, thoughtfully and even prayerfully, as you implement them to create a life full of rich experiences, blessings, and the opportunity to love and serve others in love. The last time I checked, none of us humans are getting off this planet alive in a physical form, as we each have a finite life to live in our current state. The question you must answer confronts you on a daily basis: what will you do with your life in the coming minutes, days, months and...